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  • Is It Stress or Burnout?The Little Known Physiological Difference

    Is It Stress or Burnout?The Little Known Physiological Difference

    The Physiological Difference  
    Stress and Burnout are words that are often used interchangeably. But, actually, they are two very different states. And did you know that they both have a physical aspect – it’s not all in the mind.

    It’s true. The adrenal glands, which sit on top of the kidneys, produce stress hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol. They create a reservoir of these hormones within the body, which the body and the brain can then draw on in order to navigate the typical challenges, big and small, of each day. 

    When we’re in a state of stress, we can draw on that adrenal reservoir if we need to make an extra push for a period of time or stretch ourselves to tackle a challenge.

    Drawing from our reservoir gives us some extra push. But those reserves are not unlimited. If we’re pushing ourselves – working extreme hours, working at a very fast pace, handling a huge workload – for a sustained period of time, what’s going to happen? That reservoir is going to get used up. And once it falls below a certain critical point, that is when we move from a state of stress to a state of burnout. Because suddenly there is no reservoir to draw from.

    Typically, people say that they’ve been experiencing stress symptoms for six to 18 months before they think they need to do anything about it, or before they realize that they have crossed over the threshold into burnout.

    With stress, we can bounce back by taking a couple of days off. There’s still enough mojo in the adrenal reservoir. Once we are in burnout, our reservoir has been depleted to the point where it takes a minimum of two months for the adrenals to physically replenish it. 

    And if we have seriously depleted our reservoir, thus moving deeper into a state of burnout, it can take six months, nine months or even a year before we can get back to our usual level of functioning. 

    I frequently see people who get to a breakdown point, having ignored their stress and burnout symptoms, until they literally can no longer function. We all know the phrase ‘the final straw’. Often, with burnout, it’s a tiny little thing that will trigger us moving into collapse. We might suddenly break down in the office and need to be signed off long term from work because one tiny little extra thing – after 6-18 months of pushing too hard, of course – tips us into collapse.

    How can high performers recover from burnout?
    I am often asked what does it actually take to help people recover from burnout. Unlike with stress, even just taking time off doesn’t necessarily turn burnout around because quite often our ordinary ways of coping with stress try to kick in but usually make it worse.

    This particularly applies to people who are high performers, who I specialise in working with. Obviously they’ve got a ‘can do’ attitude. “I’m just going to push through and get this outcome delivered, get this project done on time”. They’ve learned to ride through discomfort and obstacles in order to deliver what they need to deliver, which is fantastic. But when you’re talking about something like burnout, then actually that’s ultimately going to be harmful because all you are doing is increasingly depleting the adrenal reservoir. 

    This is where I come in, with my Resilient Success coaching programme.

    *I have a well tested methodology for how to turn burnout around on a week by week basis, as what the body needs at the various phases of recovery will differ. 

    *I understand how to work with burnout in a way that supports the body (and mindset) instead of working against it. 

    *But I go much further by looking at how to achieve Resilient Success – helping high performers update their familiar working practices so that they can still be on top of their work game without losing the resilience that makes it possible.

    Want to know more?

    I offer a bespoke 1-1 Resilient Success coaching programme over the course of one year for high performers who want to solve the deeper issues that get in the way of their high performance. 

    I also have a self study programme ‘Burnout Masterclass’, as well as a group programme, ‘Banish Burnout’. 

    Schedule a free Strategy Session – I might well have some ideas about the next steps you need to consider. And if I think any of my programmes would be a good fit for you, we can talk about how they would take you forwards.

    https://bit.ly/hp-strategy-session

  • My latest publication: Entertaining An Artist: Vegan. Wheat free. Handful!

    My latest publication: Entertaining An Artist: Vegan. Wheat free. Handful!

    Recently published and already selling like hot (vegan) cakes, Entertaining An Artist: Vegan. Wheatfree. Handful! is raising chuckles around the world.

    It particularly appeals to several types of reader, who are

    • looking for a light, humorous read
    • curious about the artist’s process (and the marketing of it, despite the ‘best efforts’ of the artist to sabotage this…)
    • keen to hear about the challenges and joys of sharing time with a creative person, which can very often be outside the norm
    • interested in hearing how vegan food, the vegan lifestyle and vegan principles fit within a daily context
    • and who love the quirky line drawings that illustrate the book

    Order your copy now!

     

  • Discussion: Making films and theatre autism friendly? 

    Discussion: Making films and theatre autism friendly? 

    A young person diagnosed as being on the autistic spectrum constantly asks questions when watching films or theatre shows with a parent to make sense of the emotional and social storyline.

    ‘What’s happening?’

    ‘Why does this character say this?’

    ‘Would someone really feel this?’

    The parent, a client of mine, says she is so busy answering this never-ending stream of questions that she cannot relax into the film or show.

    It led me to wonder if it might be helpful to have sub-titles (or in the theatre, audio description) that offers the emotional and social context that provides the missing information that an autistic person needs in order to make sense of what is happening.

    Cinemas already have ‘autism friendly’ screenings, where the sensory load (sound and light levels, crowds) is reduced and specially selected films are shown.

    There are accounts of how autistic children (and their parents) have been able to use films they relate to as stepping stones to developing a greater emotional articulacy. The Life, Animated website arose from the book about a boy called Owen and his favourite Disney animations.

    The Disney/Pixar movie Inside Out has been particularly noted as providing understanding of emotions for children with an autistic processing style.

    However, there doesn’t seem to be any discussion yet about how to make a wider range of films autism friendly, by filling in the missing social and emotional information that most of us already automatically know.

    Do you have personal experience of these situations, either for yourself or with friends and family? If so, what’s your view on whether this might be helpful? Or how might the idea be modified to make it hit the spot?

    Are you an organisation working with people who have been diagnosed on the autistic spectrum? Would this idea go some way to improving the quality of life for people who have this unique way of perceiving and processing the world? Are you able to commission a small pilot project to see how useful subtitles or audio descriptions could be?

    I’d like to hear from you to get a dialogue going, to inspire some creative thinking (and, hopefully, a trial project). Please do take a moment to comment.

     

  • Announcing our new ‘Stay Connected’ leaflet

    Announcing our new ‘Stay Connected’ leaflet

    We aim to be creative in how we keep connected with clients, and especially through the use of social media. So we’ve created this leaflet, to help make that easier.

    We’ll be trialling it from June, to see how it adds to the client experience.

  • The Harley Consultancy featured in Psychologies magazine Lifelabs channel

    The Harley Consultancy featured in Psychologies magazine Lifelabs channel

    The Depression Switch

    An article by Jacky Francis Walker of The Harley Consultancy has been featured in the Life Labs channel of Psychologies magazine.

    The Depression Switch describes how the low mood and negative thinking typically associated with a state of depression may sometimes be triggered by how a person copes with the small disappointments of the day. And how a mindfulness approach can help provide a greater degree of resilience, and therefore become a protective factor.

    READ MORE

     

  • May 2017 Newsletter

    May 2017 Newsletter

  • April 4 for Four – popular offer

    April 4 for Four – popular offer

    The April 4 for Four offer was enthusiastically received, and rapidly fully booked. Look out for May’s 4 for Four offer, which will be announced a week to two weeks before the beginning of May.

    4 for Four is an innovative way of making Central London sessions more affordable, whilst also guaranteeing a focused batch of sessions over a month to tackle a current concern.

    Each month, a specified batch of four sessions is put into a 4 for Four offer (one for Harley Street and one for the City of London). Instead of paying the normal fee for each session, the price for all four is reduced to £400 (a saving of £80) at Premium Session fees.

    For more details, and the latest dates, check out the 4 for Four page.

     

     

  • Spring into Action

    Spring into Action

    The latest newsletter from The Harley Consultancy.

     

    • New City of London practice – resounding success
    • Article: Business Leaders Speak Out About Mental Health
    • Special Spring offer – FREE Skype Boosters!

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