Your brain values long-term benefits when they are in the future (tomorrow), but it values immediate gratification when it comes to the present moment (today). The problem is that ‘today’ and ‘the future’ are handled by different parts of your brain, which often don’t collaborate well with each other. So you bounce from one to the other … Continue reading Why your good intentions are doomed to fail
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One of the first things we often jettison when things get busy is our personal, family and social life. Yet, paradoxically, these are the things that tend to refuel us. We do need to slow down into a different pace to enjoy these things, and we often have an instinctive reluctance to do this when … Continue reading Do You Lose Your Personal Life When Things Get Busy?
'When what drives you at work changes, do you grieve it?' An interesting question that I was asked recently. My answer: I think it depends on how the 'thing that drives you' leaves your life. If it was forced upon you by circumstances, then yes, it will need to be grieved. I used to be … Continue reading When what drives you at work changes, do you grieve it?
I think there's a lot of misunderstanding about what burnout is. I frequently come across people, and, unfortunately, quite a few coaches too, who confuse stress with burnout and try to deal with it in the same way that they deal with stress. And unfortunately that will either make burnout worse, or it will just … Continue reading The Little Known Reason Why Burnout is Different to Stress